8 May Kindness and Authority

Learning from
Proverbs 29:21 NIV
> A servant pampered from youth will turn out to be insolent.
> 从小娇纵的仆人，最终必反仆为主。

This verse reminds us about the importance of balance in how we treat people.

Kindness is important, but without wisdom, boundaries, and proper guidance, people may slowly become entitled or disrespectful.

This situation is not limited to masters and servants.

It can happen in families, schools, workplaces, and many other relationships.

For example, in a workplace, if a boss or supervisor is overly lenient all the time without accountability or discipline, some employees may eventually take advantage of the situation or even become disrespectful.

The issue is not about being kind, but about lacking wisdom in leadership and guidance.

True care includes both grace and boundaries.

I like this Chinese saying:
恩威并施

Reflection
Am I showing kindness with wisdom and proper boundaries?

Let’s pray 🙏
Lord, help me to lead and treat others with both kindness and wisdom. Teach me to balance grace with truth, so that relationships can grow in a healthy way.
Amen!

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